The only way to know how you truly feel about something, is to be without it.

Wouldn't it be nice, if there was someone who could keep everyone's mind in order? If person A feels a certain way about person B, then person B will know how person A feels as soon as they feel it.....but ONLY if person B feels the same way. Seems like that would solve a lot of problems, right?

Yeah, it actually would just make life a lot more boring, but hey, maybe every once in awhile, yeah?

Anyway, I'd like to approach the subject of secrets and whether it's good to get them out there or keep them in. I guess yeah it really depends on the secret. secrets from childhood and things will make you feel better if it's just out there, even if it hurts a little at first. Secrets of the present could potentially cause problems.....and it would be nice for the situation to work just as you would like it to, but chances are it wont....and it really is just your decision of if the help it will give you overpowers the pain it will give others. and which is more important, and so on.


but what i wonder  is, what if every person in the entire world just didn't have any secrets? one day people pour themselves out into the world.....and every little thing was out there....how much would change?


i believe everything would

Hope can either be the one thing that keeps you holding on.....or it can be the one thing that makes you let go.

it IS worth it. you ARE complex and beautiful. it IS happening for a reason. it WILL change your life.



you DO have the power to change the world. you ARE inspiring.

The importance of a rich, healthy, community is often overlooked in these times and happenings. Many of us do not know who our neighbors are, let alone interact with them. This rings true even more than in neighborhoods. In our churches, schools, workplace, region, people have put a net over themselves. I think most people would actually enjoy engaging with others in these places, many just do not know how to do this, or are waiting for the others to approach them. Honestly, you're school or workplace would be a much more enjoyable atmosphere if you knew and interacted with the people in it.

Your neighbors are probably people that will be within 5 miles of you for a very long time. why not atleast let them know that your door is open? Obviously some people may just want to be left alone or are not interested in building relationships. but there is a good chance there is a very shy, yet eager person near you who would love to have a friend, or even just need to hear that you are willing to actually be a neighbor.

just a thought....it's not THAT corny to make your neighbor some casserole or pie, ya know.